HER Lesbian, Bi & Queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
3.6
55.7K reviews
5M+
Downloads
Content rating
PEGI 18
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating and Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 13 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folks on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, connect and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
See you around!
@hersocialapp
https://www.weareher.com


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Updated on
Nov 11, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.6
54.9K reviews
Alyssia Langley
October 31, 2025
Reviewing as a "Premium" user. HER is extremely pay to use and even if you subscribe, the people you want to actually talk to can't see your likes anyway, unless they are also subscribed.. So it relies on people finding you in their feed first, which makes it a bit worthless to subscribe. Kinda defeats the point of being a dating app if you can't even match with ease. I'm not going to resubscribe.
4 people found this review helpful
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Kathulhu _
October 10, 2025
Buggy and overly complex. Designed entirely to get you to pay for Platinum. Gold is worthless, leaving me feel like I've wasted my money. Even when showed people who have looked at my profile, there is no way to interact, like, or even find them again. The red heart at the bottom of those profiles does nothing. Presumably if I only paid for Platinum... I'm more a fan of simpler apps that do what they are meant to do. I see only trying to get even more money out of me here.
7 people found this review helpful
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HER App
October 20, 2025
Thanks for taking the time to share your experience with us - we’re sorry to hear that you’ve run into issues with the app and that the experience with Gold didn’t feel worthwhile. We’d love to take a look at what’s happening on your account - can you reach out directly through our Help Center: https://support.weareher.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?
Sandra Wells
July 23, 2025
Negative stars, if that was an option... My account was blocked before I could actually open it. I filled the registration form half way through, then it kicked me out and said account on hold, get in touch with support team. I did and the support team never got back in touch to solve the issue. Probably just a data collection exercise - and one can't delete the account without being logged in, which one can't do when the account is blocked. Another example of poor quality service for women...
60 people found this review helpful
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What’s new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!